The most common human activity is not what you think…
We are mainly made of energy, in different density levels, and we burn energy every day. When we don’t know how to refill in a healthy and natural manner, we steal it from others. Human beings are entangled in this ongoing struggle and subconscious competition that explains many conflicts, situations, and behaviors.
In his milestone book “The Celestine Prophecy“, James
Redfield describes four mechanisms of energy stealing. My practice as
an energy therapist brought me to verify those mechanisms, and to find
explanations in the traditional Chinese medicine concepts :
The Intimidator : gets others’ energy by
threatening, either verbally or physically, oppressing, imposing, and
even beating up people. Fear, as a matter of fact, empties the Kidneys
meridian, where we stock our vital energy, and where is stored our
original (transmitted by our lineage) energy. The Intimidator generates
fear, and then just has to collect the energy that leaks violently and
completely from his counterpart.
The Interrogator : gets others’ energy by questioning
everything all the time. Children subconsciously use that technique.
Adults use it out of excessive curiosity, jealousy, to find the flaws
and better belittle or criticize. That mechanism empties the Earth
Element (Stomach and Spleen meridians), which regulates
self-confidence, the Gall Bladder meridian (focus, imagination,
reflection), and the Heart meridian (interaction with others), because
personal boundaries are violated.
The Aloof : gets others’ energy by looking
indifferent, withdrawn, mysterious or secretive, which leads others to
exhaust themselves trying to get his attention, wondering what is going
on, or feeling guilty. That technique drains the Earth Element
(self-confidence, anxiety/Spleen).
The Poor Me : gets others’ energy by complaining,
telling you all the horrible things that happened/is happening/will
happen to him, and makes you believe it is partly your fault, unless you
help them. I can visualize you putting names on each profile (“That is exactly
my partner!”, “Oh yes, my mother always does that!…”) … Very well! Learn
how to recognize the energy thieves, young and old. And now, think about your own profile! Do you recognize yourself in one
(or more) of these descriptions ? If the answer is yes, it is time to
change your technique. Your relationships will benefit wonderfully…
How to gain energy without stealing it from others ?
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